Sorry. but there’s no way to recover it.
Nobody has a copy of any user’s pass phrase and nobody knows who owns which wallet, etc.
If you remember 9 or 10 words, you may have a chance to brute-crack the remaining 2-3 words - there’s a script here.
The same page has a list of all words (see the Python script, mnemonic_word_list) so you can review the words (less than 2,000 of them) to see if you can recognize that some from your pass phrase.